Worried About Complexion?

Everyone is born with unique features in them and with so much talents. But when we are pregnant most of us worry about the color complexion of the babies, specially if the father or the mother has a dark complexion, it's natural that we start worrying about that they might inherit the same complexion genetically of the mother or father. I would be more worried about the babies' health not the complexion.

The only and only daughter of my Niece - 3 days old

Beauty has no relation with the complexion if you really see it thoroughly, that's why they say "beauty is skin deep". How many of us see so beautiful people with dark complexion, and we like them and love them too. How many of us are with fair complexion, are we all happy about our lives? Is everything perfect in our lives?

Specially when you like something about someone, you don't see the color, but you see the beauty inside them, in their hearts, their talents and the capabilities in specific fields and the signal is sent to your mind through your heart, you accept the person as your lover, your best friend, and the person's appearance is not what's important to you. Their kindness, behavior and the way they treat us are the most important aspects that attract us towards them.

Have a little glance at what's going on around, you can see how many beautiful wives are being torchured and abused. If they were to be the most happiest and most loved people, why do they have to suffer from what they never expected. In India there are 1000s of suicide cases and murder cases a day of women and girls, mostly killed by their husbands or boy friends.

You must have heard about Oprah Winfrey (a black woman) who is one of the richest and the most successful women in the world for her talent and for being a true human being helping others solving their problems. She has a story too. About her childhood, how she was abused. But that made her more stronger and she stood firm all her life working for humanity, specially for women and children. The inner beauty of her is most attractive part that we see. So there are millions of fans around the world who love her so much.

The one and only daughter (7 days old) of my youngest sister

The point here is not about why they are being killed and what happens with them. The point is if the fair complexion has got to do anything, that's just the outside look, the appearance. There is nothing to do with the complexion when you choose your life partner. You love your children with dark complexion as much as you would love if the children were with fair complexion. It doesn't matter to you how they look. What matters to you would be their upbringing always. The most precious things to you would be your children, their morality, good principle not their color.

And if you are worried about your own complexion, remember, we love you for who you are from inside, not from outside. Your family loves you, you life partner and your children love you for the beauty inside and outside.

There are many beautiful people with dark complexion. Everyone is unique. You are too. If someone dislikes you, there would be 100s and 1000s who love you so much and appreciate you wherever you go. Believe in the philosophy, "to the world you might be one person, but to someone you are the world". It's the inner beauty that attracts us most. Be kind and be gentle. Love yourself, the true being of yourself and have gratitude!

Aren't they both babies beautiful? One is very fair born to a European father and a fair Maldivian mother while the other has just a beautiful Maldivian complexion like her mom & dad. But we love them both equally and they are so beautiful. Surprisingly their name are same "Kiara" <3

My First Blog Post - A Holiday In Paradise

Hey guys, I always hear people talking about blogging and see them sharing the links on different sites and groups on Facebook too. I didn't know how it works, so I was never interested to see anyone's blog till today.

It looks so much fun to me when I gave my first try as we can share anything we want here. Whether you read me or not, my blog can be my best friend all the time with whom I can share my thoughts or good informations and my activities. Looks fantastic!

Just before we went to swim, ready to go after the coffee!

For the time being, this is myself in a resort in the Maldives recently. We had so much fun during the vacation. What I loved most about the trip was the crystal clear water, the lagoons, the beaches and the food!

That kind of natural beauty you will get to see nowhere else other than in the Maldives. Tropical Sweet birds' singing is heard from the trees above you. They are singing so softly that makes you feel so relaxed and delighted. Appreciating the sight of the nature and the atmosphere, you make your way to the beach, a waved pathway (optional) in the middle of grass like a green rug stretches in front of you all the way, while it has another so soft white sandy pathway to feel the beauty of the Maldives. All the flowers and trees draw aside to make way from the room to the beach. I might have been the happiest person in the world at the moment. Felt like heaven.

We spent the whole day in the water swimming and enjoying the sun. As we did not care about the time to swim, we swam in the afternoon when the sun was right above our heads so bright... LOL. When we came back from holiday, we had our skin really turned to brown, completely tanned! I loved the color of my skin though my sons were complaining about the change in their skin color.

I had an opportunity to spend sometime there with my husband's friends and one of his friend's wife and her mom from Sri Lanka joined us too. She was such a nice and friendly person and her mom is the youngest looking lady at 55 years of age that I have ever seen, amazing! I was shocked to see her (the mother) hiding from the sun and she said the secret of her beauty was just because of the protection from sun light.

What I am going to do is to share what I get to read and some good things that I have learnt from my own life experience. I may not be that good to write, though I would try my best to write some interesting posts to make you enjoy reading my posts on my blog. Thank you for visiting my blog!

An example of the beautiful water in the Maldives. My two sons watching the fishes in the shallow lagoon.